Blog, Consent, Kink, Mental Health, Non-Monogamy

No Expectations

I’ve seen the phrase “no expectations” used a lot in the context of relationships: everything from “We have no expectations of each other; we hang out when it feels good to and don’t when it doesn’t.” to “So-and-so keeps saying there are no expectations of our time together, but I don’t know what that means.”… Continue reading No Expectations

Blog, Kink, Mental Health

Taking Up Space

"You talk about being too much, taking up too much space...but if you had to be less, or take up less space than you do...then you're reducing yourself in order to make yourself fit." I remember when I started wearing my father's cowboy boots. They have a metal heel and are louder than stilettos on… Continue reading Taking Up Space